Adults on Mission Blog

Call to Refocus

“How are you?’ the teacher asked.

“Ready to go home.” I had been at work for an hour and felt defeated already.

Tension filled our office. We complained about work conditions and each other. Most communication from upper management was about unsatisfactory productivity or additions to our workload. I was unsure why God wasn’t intervening although I prayed for help daily.

One morning while praising God for His sovereignty, I released my worries and fears to Him. I decided to trust God and do my work as unto the Lord (Colossians 3:23). I focused on praising God, setting healthy boundaries, and asking God to help me meet agency requirements.

I told a coworker of my desire to pray with others in the office with similar frustrations, sharing how I found peace after changing my focus. She told me about a self-care group sponsored by a previous employer and encouraged me to “do it.”

WMU Wins Souls for Christ

I’ve worked with WMU for several years. I attended several leadership conferences, and I was a workshop leader representing Sisters Who Care. During one conference, Ms. Chocolate spoke about the needs of children in her community. She encouraged us to spread the gospel in our neighborhoods stating, “How will they know unless we tell them?”

I’ve recalled those words often. I’ve interviewed missionaries who are thankful for readers’ prayers for them, their families, and for the salvation of the people groups they serve. Missionaries sacrifice the comforts of home to meet the physical and spiritual needs of those who’ve never heard nor thought of having a relationship with God who created them. “How will they know?”

Changing Focus to Receive God’s Strength

My husband was rushed to the hospital December 4, 2015. He was vomiting “old blood.” Each time the doctor cleared Darrell’s stomach then fed him through his peg tube, Darrell aspirated. The surgeon couldn’t replace the peg with a J-tube due to gastric problems, aspiration, and chronic vomiting. Nourishment to sustain life was impossible.

I watched my husband transition to eternity with the Lord. I worried about Darrell, his fears, and how I would live without him. With each worry, I asked God to strengthen and help me live in the present, to be thankful for the current moment we had together.

UNEXPECTED CALL TO MISSIONS

“You’re a dutiful wife,” one nursing home resident said, noting that I visited Darrell daily. Her comment increased my awareness of the other residents. I started encouraging and loving each resident, winking at some, and promising to take care of the nurses if any of them were mistreated. Their smiles and repeated stories comforted me, giving me the strength to be there for my husband.

One resident was in a coma, unable to respond to his family when they visited. I thought about the joy I felt when my husband recognized and talked with me. He returned my kisses and gazed into my eyes. I began to pray for the resident and his family.

I went to the nursing home after my husband’s death in December but was overwhelmed with grief because Darrell wasn’t there. However, with God’s help, I will start visiting the residents whose love sustained me as I reached out to love them.

I thank God for the opportunity to share Christ’s love with the residents. Not only did my marriage demonstrate to the world the relationship between Christ and the church, but God turned our tragedy into a nursing home mission experience.

Missing my Dear Friend

I miss her. I do. I miss my dear friend.

We did everything together. Our kids were best friends. We celebrated birthdays together, holidays.

Leaving a Bible in Africa

I went to hear our church missions team report on their Africa trip. Viewing their pictures, hearing about the lions calling out to each other near their living quarters, discovering how the monkeys stole their shampoo and soap in the outdoor showers, and listening to their plans to return was amazing.

Every detail intrigued my heart.

Submerging Yourself in God’s Word

“What are we doing in VBS this year?” I asked my daughter. I lay back on the carpeted floor near her. I know she’s in “the know” because both my teenage girls work in children’s choir.

“We’re doing ‘Submerge.’ We’re already working on a song. It’s really annoying that even when we aren’t practicing it, the girls are singing it. The boys are fed up with the girls.”

Sometimes we have to give up our desires for the greater good.

Giving Up My Life

“We aren’t sure what’s wrong,” said the emergency room doctor.

I’d been experiencing four days of abdominal pain accompanied by a low-grade temperature.

“Your doctor said it could be your appendix leaking infection.” He paused. “But we aren’t sure what that soft mass is.”

An Unexpected Platform

Microphone on stage

Recently, while walking through a subway station, I was approached by a stranger. I assumed he was a lost tourist, but he was a photographer taking photos of New Yorkers for a blog. I quickly realized he writes for a very popular photo blog that has millions of followers. He asked if he could take my photo and share my story. I’d never thought much about what I would say if approached by this guy (as I’m a big fan of his work), but here I was standing there with a great opportunity to share my story.

I said yes, and his first question was something along the lines of “What are you most passionate about?” So I started talking about Christ, the gospel, and church planting. I stammered through several things and really don’t remember all of what I said. I honestly didn’t say anything profound; I just rambled on about my life and the things I do.

Serve Others

Missionaries are some of the most selfless people in the world. Many leave their comfort zone, their homes, and families to serve God and others. Missionaries give selflessly of themselves.

Their happiness is truly lasting. A selfless person will attract takers and sometimes will be unappreciated. Boundaries must clearly be set. The world may seek the advice of a selfless person and then ignore it. In order to be selfless, whole-hearted and genuine, we must take care of ourselves first in order to give our best self to others.

However, being selfless does not have to mean being a doormat. Stand on the Word of God. The Christian life is not about self-promotion; it is about self-denial.

God didn’t add another day in our life because we needed it, He added it because someone out there needs us.        

 

 

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