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In Sorrow and in Joy

Easter offers open doors to share the message of hope found in Christ

The day before my daughter’s fourth birthday, we buried her two-year-old cousin. I watched my family try to cope at the funeral. When my brother carried the tiny casket from the church, I thought my heart would break in half. It is not right for parents and grandparents to bury children. From the words of the minister, I took comfort. He told us Oakley was in the presence of the Father. He reminded us of the pain Oakley endured every day of his life, and since his death, Oakley has been pain-free. I took strength from the words spoken by the minister at the funeral as he shared from the Bible. Those words of comfort sustained my family during a very difficult time.

I am reminded of the story of Jairus and his daughter in the fifth chapter of Mark. Can you imagine Jairus’s pain as he pleaded with Jesus while his daughter lay seriously ill at home in bed? He, like any parent, would do anything for his child. There is no worse pain on this earth than watching a child suffer and die. Then Jairus’s tears of sorrow were replaced by tears of joy as Jesus raised the child from the dead. Can you imagine the hugging and sobbing that took place in Jairus’s home that day?

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